I received a call last week from a gentleman who had recently lost his wife.  He needed help with all of the items they had accumulated over the years so I went for a visit and I'm so happy that I did....this 72 year old man had such a great sense of humor.  He had reached a point in his life where he was accepting of his situation.  What more can we do?  Life keeps flowing, stuff changes, people change.  And I know the whole time his wife was looking down and laughing with us.